Controlling emotions when others our hot.

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I accompanied a friend to a place where I had undergone my internship program while I was still in the university.

To apply to the organization, which because I really want the person to be with that organization for so many reasons and benefits attached to it.

So on reaching the film, we first spoke to the secretary about her intentions of coming. And she warmly welcomed us, offering a sit, which we sat.

Waiting patiently and desperately for the general Manager to arrive, the technical department, Manager was already on-site.

I asked my friend to speak to her, to confirm if the general Manager would be on-site. And she assures us of her on failing present at work that yesterday.

As my friend and I were just chatting, the lady worked in, we greeted her is the most plateful manner, after waiting for about 3 years for her.

She, merely, responded to our greetings so it was so terrifying, we didn't know how if it was a mood swing.

So we sat back, waiting for her calls because our files were already on her desk, just for her to visit it and then decide our fate.

Meanwhile, my friend was already out of her emotions, she didn't like the saddle moods she gave us. She got upset, began to think otherwise.

The General Manager's attitude put her off. I only pretend not to notice it, so she would still have some likeness for the organization if she is granted her request.

Very different from the gesture we got from the technical Manager. At that point, she started giving up, on the opportunities attached to our being there.

Our emotions, sometimes in is our place to control it, I was able to control my but she wanted to turn out hers, though I could manage the situation, to calm her down.

Truly, many people just wake up from the wrong side of your sleep only to pure the anger on other innocent people. It is just heartbreaking.

So I decided to control my emotion, not minding the way people respond to me, or see the matter at the time being. No matter what, if you see it the way they want, definitely may be some issues.

So I decided to use my emotions to shape hers and all got alone and everything went well at the end.

[Spanish] Acompañé a una amiga a un lugar donde realicé mi programa de pasantía mientras aún estaba en la universidad.

Ella quería postularse a la organización, y yo realmente deseaba que formara parte de ella por muchas razones y beneficios asociados.

Al llegar a la empresa, primero hablamos con la secretaria sobre sus intenciones de unirse. Ella nos recibió cordialmente y nos ofreció asiento, el cual aceptamos.

Esperábamos pacientemente y con ansiedad la llegada de la Gerente General; mientras tanto, la Gerente del Departamento Técnico ya estaba en el lugar.

Le pedí a mi amiga que hablara con ella para confirmar si la Gerente General estaría presente. Ella nos aseguró que había estado presente en el trabajo el día anterior.

Mientras mi amiga y yo conversábamos, la señora entró; la saludamos de la manera más respetuosa después de haber esperado aproximadamente tres años para verla.

Ella apenas respondió a nuestros saludos, lo cual fue muy desconcertante; no sabíamos si se debía a un cambio de humor.

Así que nos sentamos nuevamente, esperando su llamado, ya que nuestros archivos ya estaban en su escritorio, solo faltaba que los revisara y decidiera nuestro destino.

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This was such a real and relatable experience. You handled the situation with such much maturity and patience. It's true - sometimes people emotions have nothing to do with us, and controlling our emotions can really change how things turned out.

It's good you stayed calm and helped your friend remain positive also

Very true, because everyone cannot been mad at the same time.

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